|"Automat" - Edward Hopper 1927|
My favorite thoughtful painting.
About a month ago, we downsized, again. The first big downsizing effort was sixteen years ago when we moved from a large house to a fairly large townhouse. The most recent move was to a much smaller apartment. It's one of the best decisions we've ever made.
We left behind: many, many stairs (bane of my existence!); fifty-year old plumbing that was undoubtedly destined to be replaced at substantial expense; the vagaries of the housing market which, fortunately, was still nicely on our side, even though we didn't sell during the insane peak of several years ago.
We also left behind a lot of unnecessary stuff and things, although that's an ongoing process. We rented storage space but, no, it will not be the black hole that storage space often seems to be for many people. Our plan is to continue to toss/donate/sell much of what's in there, but we also will use it as an active adjunct to our apartment -- in fact, we've been doing that already, and it's helped keep our living space uncluttered. Example: we don't need suitcases, holiday decorations, or all of my artwork close at hand, but we do need to keep them. We have a filing cabinet that's not active enough to take up room in the apartment, but is very handy in the storage space. There are souvenirs of the past that are fun to have, but that we don't need to display at home; it's enough to know we can go take a peek whenever we want. The storage space is in a large, secure, climate-controlled building, so we feel fine about having our possessions there. And the cost per square foot is far less than the cost of more living space, so it makes sense financially, too.
We loved our new apartment when we first saw it, but we're even happier than we had expected to be, now that we're living in it. It has been absolutely liberating. However, the most surprising thing that's happened is that so many people we know, most who haven't seen it yet, have been wistfully envious of our decision. The concept of having less stuff, less responsibility, and a smaller, more efficient, yet still comfortable, place to live is incredibly appealing. I won't be surprised if our move prompts one or two moves by friends who also realize that they could be happy, probably happier, if they downsize, too.
Letting go of excess possessions, as we have been doing, often causes people to reflect on other aspects of life that need to be changed. When I teach my occasional uncluttering workshops, one of the things I tell my students is that you can't do a good job uncluttering until you know who you are right now. How can you judge what's important to keep if you can't figure out if you're the same person today that you were when you acquired something? How can you clear away the past and make room for the now -- and the future -- if you can't see what's changed in you? And everything, everyone changes in some ways. You may still think of yourself as a free-spirited flower child, but it's unlikely that you're still wearing bell-bottom jeans, fringed leather vests, and love beads -- at least, I hope not! You may have once been very interested in a hobby that, when you think about it, now leaves you cold. Why keep the craft supplies if you haven't used them in ages? You may have always wanted to learn to play the piano, but felt you never had time. Why wait?
In my reflections about who I am now, I realized that it's time to let go of The Thoughtful Consumer blog. I took a brief hiatus a few years ago and returned refreshed. This time, I haven't posted for months and I return aware that it's okay to move on.
When I started the blog, it was a way to continue sharing thoughts that had arisen during the first downsizing effort, an effort that continued for several years after we had moved to the townhouse. It was at that time that I let go of almost all of my family antiques -- furniture, dishes, glassware, all lovely and all full of fond memories for me. The experience prompted the writing of Sorting It Out: One Disorganized Woman Solves the Problem of Too Much Stuff, originally published in 2006. I started writing it in 2004, ten years ago. Back then, there was a limited number of books available about uncluttering, and there was certainly a lack of much material written from the point of view of someone who had dealt personally with the situation. Today, the market is glutted with books as well as websites, blogs, and Facebook Pages on uncluttering and organizing. The career of Professional Organizer has taken off. Television series about uncluttering have come and gone. Awareness about consumer issues has become more common, too, as have books, websites, blogs, and Facebook Pages devoted to that topic.
Meanwhile, during the past decade, my attention consistently has been pulled in the direction of making my art and working on other projects, including writing the daily blog for EngAGE, a non-profit devoted to creative aging; and being a producer and host on the Experience Talks public radio show and podcast. My passion about uncluttering has not dimmed -- as anyone who's taken my workshop can attest! -- nor has my deep concern about consumer issues, but it's time to let others continue, quite capably, to carry the public torch.
And yet, I couldn't just disappear without letting you know that I am so grateful to all of you for showing your support for this blog and for my writing. Thank you. The blog will remain online, of course, because it is full of material that is, in most cases, just as relevant today as it was when it was posted.
If you'd like to follow what I'm doing now, I hope you'll find me online:
Art by Cynthia Website
Art by Cynthia Blog
and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ArtByCynthia
and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/EngAGEDaging
Experience Talks Radio Show Website
and on Facebook at www.facebook.com/ExperienceTalks
Wishing you the best of everything in the future,